The answer is nobody. Especially when these are people who have not and will not change. People who will be here 10 years from now, right where they are now.
I made up the list for Mike 25th birthday, and I have a huge group of friends. Decent ones, who are deserving of my love. Why chase anything else?
So nevermind to all that. Be glad if it is your bizarre self-preservation to think you are better off or I am someone undeserving. Whatever. I am still not sorry, and I believe everybody got what they deserve.
You know what? I'm really glad I cleared that up.